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6 Christmases. That’s what I realized I had left with my son at home when he was in 7th grade. I was a youth pastor at the time so I already had an idea of how quick it goes by — a kid shows up to youth group in 7th grade, nervous and excited. Next thing you know they’re driving. Then you’re praying they stay close to the Lord in college. Goes by quick. But man, when it’s your own kids zipping through those years, it hits harder.
6 Christmases. How do we go from footy pajamas and being their hero to 6 Christmases so quick? And knowing our time is short what do we do with Christmas? Wow ‘em with gifts? Good luck. Get mad? Won’t help. Be sad? It’ll just waste what little time we have. I certainly don’t have a success manual, but I know it’s got a lot to do with love. Love them with our time, hugs, truth, correction, encouragement, acceptance. Maybe make them stay home and watch a lame family Christmas movie instead of hanging out with friends. Maybe not mention their grades or sports performance for a couple days around December 25th. Worship the Lord with them, let them hear you sing. Tell some old stories about when they were little. Share a meal you know they’ll like. Kiss their momma in front of them and gross them out. Beat them in monopoly and/or dominoes. Grab their hand pray with them and tell them they’ll never get too big for that, then give a hug with an extra squeeze at the end. Relax. Laugh. Have fun. Make sure they know Jesus is everything and everything else can get in line.
Like I said I don’t have all the answers, but doing this kind of stuff will not only make the most of the Christmases we have, but maybe even bring them home for many many more even after they’re grown. Enjoy every moment, mom and dad, knowing there’s even more enjoyment to be had.